Originally Posted by
BigBird
Something like this can put a strain on even the best marriage so I disagree when people say it cant be much of a marriage. Your wife can't understand why some girl would make this up so in her mind there must be something to it. Even the most trustworthy husband or wife have been known to stray when intoxicated so why not you. Ask your wife to give you the benefit of the doubt and you promise to do everything necessary to prove this girl is lying.
How did this accusation start. Did she turn up at your door? Was it gossip that got back to your wife from someone else? Where is this act supposed to have taken place? If it was after a night out was she drunk and even though she doesn't remember what you look like she remembers your name which could have been given to her by one of your stupid mates when he was with her that night. Or is it possible someone has put this girl up to this to destroy you. I've known that happen before to someone.
Let her pay for a DNA test. Send her a solicitors letter with two options: Provide evidence that you are the father or come clean with the truth. Threaten court action with damages if she does neither.
Then there is always Jeremy and his famous lie detector test. Just let us know when it is going to be screened. (">