Is it pmt ?

**greens117** · 23rd August 2008

I have a problem it started about a 3 weeks ago !.
The problem is ive been out of work for about 3 months ,witch aint good but to make matters worse i had two barber shops to cut a long story short "ahem" , i had them for 10 years i lost them because i was to young and stupid ,i had money on the hip i never payed council tax or income tax, due to drugs and drink ,the point is ive been with my girlfreind from about 1999 ,we have been togher for 15 years @P nearly we split for about a week and decided we loved each other to spend our lifes with each other ,then i left barbering to get more money and get us outta a hole ie, money wise, but ever since then i have never setteled in a job as i struggled with the structrue ,but i always earnt money to keep the bills payed with my missus job ,well to be honest she trained to be a teacher ,and now she is she earns a good wage now and she has kept us going for a few dire times ,now ive made the desion to go self employed like i did those years back, .i feel so much better in my self and more confident ,i forgot to say in the mean time we where trying for kids ,she put up with all my the crapp like no money from me week to week ,but now im really trying to stick this job down, well i have to because i lent the money of my old man who hasn't got load's of money himself, i just new it was right to start again and provide for us ,and its really paying off im earning very good money, wednesday this week she came outta the blue with i dont no what direction our our life's are going and ,i dont know if i love you anymore ,its not you its me , you dont make a effort with me anymore ,you dont like my mate's other halfs ,"well ive never met then lol "you took the piss outta me from when you left your shop's .i kept you when you was unemployed !,Your effort now is to little to late, !so tonight as i right this im alone and pissed off, any other time i could work this out with her ,but she seems like a cold hearted termintator lol , tbh she has been on the pill for about 15 year's and when we wanted kids about a year ago she came off them , ive never understood blokes bitching about there missus before ,but now im in the boat .. its seems like everything i say goes to a dead end its like i love you "fcuk OFF"
maybe its your hormones "fcuk off and die worthlessman "
ill give up and become a gay monk

any ideas / aceept a ky lol
i just want her back to normal :
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**spiderbites** · 23rd August 2008

I found that really hard to read

**greens117** · 23rd August 2008

never mind !!!

**I Black Belt** · 23rd August 2008

Generally mate, when they come out with the "it's not you it's me" quote, they're seeing someone else

**DJAd** · 23rd August 2008

Cut your losses and run.

**CzarJunkie** · 23rd August 2008

Sounds like you are a bit of a tit, that comes across in most of your posts though. Not just this one. Maybe she's just fed up of dating a tit? Yep, that's my theory.

**blacksheep** · 24th August 2008

One idea for you, use fullstops as well as commas.

**DejaVu** · 24th August 2008

They are right, your Grammar could use some work. But sorting your Grammar aint gonna help your woman troubles!

After reading through it twice I worked it out and agree most definately with 'I Black Belt's post.

The long and short of it is your woman's got bored and jumped the fence to where she thinks the grass is greener. The dead give away is the statement, 'It's not you it's me'.

It translates to - she's fcuked off the relationship for whatever reason and has meet someone else.
Good job + Good wage = Huge increase in confidence!

Move on mate and enjoy your single life for a while.

Just make sure you keep YOUR job!!