There is a lot of homo-erotic banter that goes on here on DF, much of which I happily join in on However when the chips are down, are you really that comfortable with homosexuality? In my case its all very well saying that I have nothing against the homosexual lifestyle and abhor any form of prejudice directed towards them, but if my son/daughter told me they were gay, I think I would be pretty devastated, as well as embarassed, angry etc.. So the question is, would you accept your child if they told you they were gay? the question is not whether you would still love them (since I hope that would be obvious), but rather whether you would embrace their lifestyle and welcome their partners as you would straight sons/daughters in law?
Whats promoted this post was an interesting lunch I just had with 4 Swiss colleagues. One of them let slip that his son and partner were coming over this Sunday for lunch. Someone innocently asked if they had any kids, and the poor guy went bright scarlet and muttered that his son's partner was actually a man. The three others looked visibly shocked, which sort of matches the ultra-conservative Swiss mentality.
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