Should i feel like a paedo?

[t00lbox]

I play sunday league football in goal and about 8 years ago one of my team players would bring his daughter along and she would stand at the back of the goals and chat to me, she done it for a season till her dad left the squad.
She recently added me on facebook through seeing me on her dad/brother profile.
We got chatting, "how yo doing/college etc" turns out she has a flat and has just split up with her BF, and commented about how she does not want a boyfriend just a fuck buddy.
I sent her a message asking if she would be into chubby married men, to see if it would cheer her up a bit. she replied that she had a crush on me when she was 11 and i was the reason she came to football, and would love to meet up, just to chat at first and then who knows.
I dont have any loyalty/respect to her dad or family as they are just people i know.
im almost 40 now but the thought of nailing a pert 19yr old is tempting, but ive only ever known her as a kid, ive seen her facebook pics and she is fit..should i nail it, get her to send me a picture of her danger zone or walk away and wank over what could have been..???
I dont think i'll ever have a offer like this again..

[TigerShark]

lol at you edit reason

if you hadn't known her as an 11 year old, would you feel any different?

I personally wouldn't do it, as I've found I'm attracted to women my age (when younger I fancied younger girls, but now in thirties, I find women my age more attractive.

but saying that hugh hefner never had a problem with it

good luck with your dilemma

[turnerswfc]

Now that's a dilemma and a half. To top it off though you say you're married....???!!!

As i'm not your age I can't really comment as I would at 24 but see exactly where you're coming from.

God luck with it mate.

[CeeJay]

From the sounds of it you never had any thoughts of nailing her until she just got back in touch with you recently and seeing as she is now well over the legal age i don't see any issues there.

You don't have much contact with her family and, they probably would never find out as she obviously isn't looking for anything serious.

I'd guess that she wants a man with experience to learn a few things off and sounds like she has ear marked your good self as the teacher

There was no mention in your post about cheeting on your missus though which would be where my worries would be in your situation but, i'd probably meet up with her anyway and see what happens. If you decide not to then feel free to pass her on to me

[inspectercoley]

Whats the worst that could happen?
You will regret it if you don't but might regret it if you...

[up for it]

your married
do you really want rid of your wife and throw all those years away ?? then have the decency to leave her first think on of how she would feel
then go bone the bitch and get your monies worth

[OrangeJuicey]

Maybe you should post a picture of this girl and a picture of your wife and we can vote on who is the hottest? that might help.

[liveseytowers]

Post a facebook pic up and then we can decide

[fairy-blue]

Maybe you should post a picture of this girl and a picture of your wife and we can vote on who is the hottest? that might help.

While you're at it post 1 of yourself so we can see what she sees in you?

[littlebilly1]

you love and respect your wife?? im guessing not due to you even contemplating it, don't do it, it will only lead to complications and shit eventually

[Swiss Tony]

Tip

If you wifes any good we could all pop round yours while your out ! Not like you could be annoyed or anything lol !

[NADIRv8]

I'm sure theres a 'PRICELESS!' joke around here somewhere...

I agree though, don't do it - it's bad for our image as men.

[fairy-blue]

Tip

If you wifes any good we could all pop round yours while your out ! Not like you could be annoyed or anything lol !

Good thinkin batman

[-AMO-]

Fucking go for it mate. You only live once and before you know it you'll be rocking back and forth in a retirement home wishing you took such an opportunity when you had the chance.

You'd be an idiot not to.

[Greyfox]

DO IT! correction DO HER!

[Little John]

Gotta love t00lbox in the confession box

[AD]

LMAO

Nice one t00lbox. BTW Nail her.

-=AD=-

[Ganty]

nail her, then brag about all those pr0stitutes you fucked on your last business trip. That should make her feel special

[casio]

yes you should feel like a paedo, your only contact with her was when she was 11 ffs fair enough shes 19 now but the girl who had a crush on you was 11!

you have a wife who im sure wouldnt be all that keen either, I can see your point that you may never get the chance to shag another teenager but being a man is'nt about fucking anything that walks its about being strong and saying no to things that are a bad idea.

its threads like this that make me think facebook is a bad idea, i wonder how many marriges and families have been split up by friends reunited/facebook usage.

add to this that your wife will find out, they always know or have a suspicion that youve done something wrong, and almost 40 and divorced isnt a good update for your facebook profile, the only reason shes interested in a "fuck buddy" of your age is probably low self esteem and ''daddy'' issues which when she realises shes not able to do it with out feelings getting involved, your wife (and kids?) is going to be the one that pays the price

Man up, say no and lock it away in the wank bank for a rainy day cos trust me shes not going to be as good in bed as you think... they never are.

[russbeer]

You're not Kevin Webster are you?



If you can accept the fact that your marriage could end because of this and it doesnt particularly bother you, then do it. If you value your wife, then don't. Although how much you can value your wife if questionable if you are even remotely considering this...