This is a sad TWAT :(

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  1. jjcool's Avatar

    jjcool said:

    Default This is a sad day for me today :(

    hi fiends,

    this is a sad day for me indeed

    ive been married for 9 years,

    we dident live together ,
    i have 4 kids,

    well we had a big bust up one night,
    and i havent been in contact with them for 2 months,

    well it got to me today as i was missing all of them and decided to ring up,


    well a man picked the phone up
    i asked for my wife,
    she came on and i said who is that man answering the phone,
    she said its here new fella


    i said "i cant beleve you have done that on me"

    she said "what are you shocked ive got on with my life"

    i said, "i shocked you have cheated on your husband with another fella"

    then i said " how long have you been with him"

    she said "ive been with him 1 week and loving it"

    i was so gutted thats she said that and what shes done on me.

    then she said "im not having someone that comes and goes if u want to see the kids go to a soliciter then you will have to see them each week"


    im still shaking now, i just cant beleve what shes done, shes threw 9 years of marrage down the drain and it hurts right now


    i just cant beleve it
     
  2. dingle_666's Avatar

    dingle_666 said:

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    sorry to hear it dude, women aint worth it (see my other thread)
     
  3. CzarJunkie's Avatar

    CzarJunkie said:

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    Pull yourself together, what kind of man are you? Are you gonna stand by and pour your heart out to people you hardly know while she fcuks you over? Take back control, get your arse over there, give the bloke a good kicking and take back your kids, if the wife doesn't want to come back tell her to fcuk off. Crying into your keyboard and shaking like a big girl ain't gonna get your kids back m8.

    On the other hand you could just let them go and say 'fcuk it', you'd prolly be better off without the lot of 'em m8, wives and kids cost money. I'd pack my job in and disappear to anothet town or city and change your identity, that way the CSA will never find you and you'll be coined up big time. Think of the opportunities for a single man in todays society, you could have beer and sex on tap.
     
  4. jjcool's Avatar

    jjcool said:

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    all im saying is,

    its as if someone has dyed in the family when you find out that,

    CzarJunkie
    its not a very nice feeling knowing you have been cheated on,
    and shes having a good time with him, and him sh***ing her

    plus if we never had any kids it would be easyer, but i still loved my wife, but i lov my kids so its hard

    people have feelings,
    its just not worth going around and beating him to a pulp,
    as i would get locked up and probly wouldent see my kids again,
    due to violence,

    i posted it on here as i have a few friends on here and i just wanted to get my feelings out,

    just goes to show it dident take her long to get over me,
    i just cant beleve it,
     
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    Cam said:

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    yeh well said czar fu(k um all if u want the kids tho go to court and make it out that shes a bit of a slapper with new blokes and its not the sort of evramnet you want your kids growing up in

    if not do the useal brick the windows or to really piss um off brick up the windows and doors when they go out

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  6. shadygeezer's Avatar

    shadygeezer said:

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    Originally posted by CzarJunkie
    Pull yourself together, what kind of man are you? Are you gonna stand by and pour your heart out to people you hardly know while she fcuks you over? Take back control, get your arse over there, give the bloke a good kicking and take back your kids, if the wife doesn't want to come back tell her to fcuk off. Crying into your keyboard and shaking like a big girl ain't gonna get your kids back m8.

    On the other hand you could just let them go and say 'fcuk it', you'd prolly be better off without the lot of 'em m8, wives and kids cost money. I'd pack my job in and disappear to anothet town or city and change your identity, that way the CSA will never find you and you'll be coined up big time. Think of the opportunities for a single man in todays society, you could have beer and sex on tap.
    Too right well said all your tears and self pity get you no where
    Try to sort it out if its no go pick yourself up and start again
    Women don't give a flying f*ck when your squeeking after their affection show her you dont give a monkeys toss and go out
    get yoursen a woman younger than her always pisses em off big time.
    all the best anyways hope it turns out ok 4 ya
    regards
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    jjcool said:

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    yea, what it is shes got someone new now, shes got a new toy
    so shes not going to give a flying f*uck about me now
     
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    diablos said:

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    czar junkies right on this your a bleeding heart mate and theres nothing worse,crying about football fair enough but women your having a laff.

    hope this helps.
     
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    jjcool said:

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    all i can say is 9 years is a long time to be with someone you lov
    and to find out somethinlk like that is a bad thing,

    i agree some men if they found out wouldent give a f*ck
    but then there would be men that would to depressed like me

    everyones diffrent.

    trouble is with me i just get too attached with women emotionly,
    plus i dont go out

    have a heart guys, if it happened to you then you would know
    Last edited by jjcool; 11th September 2002 at 06:16 PM.
     
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    CzarJunkie said:

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    Anyway m8, life goes on, whatever happens chin up and don't do owt daft cos thats the last thing your kids need.
     
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    shadygeezer said:

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    9 years is a long m8 but you must of seen somthing coming
    cause you've had no contact for 2 months and before that you had big bust up
    you cant wallow in self pity now get your arse round their and find wtf's going on it could have been anybody who answered that call and now she just srtirring you up go sort it out if its
    worth saving if not do a f*cking runner m8 ur sh*gged with 4 kids
    csa have a field day with ya
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    whitesteel said:

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    If you had asked for tips on how to get revenge you probably would have had a more positive response.
     
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    Known said:

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    jj, I sympathise with you, I really do.

    Screw czarjunkie, he's never gonna get married anyway, at least not to a woman, and kids? lol

    All I can say m8 is chin up, time heals everything, and chicks dig scars.
     
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    jjcool said:

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    thanx for the reply Known

    shadygeezer,

    to be honest i did suspect somethink,

    when i used to go up there to see my kids, my eldist lad said we had a man in here with his 2 kids,

    well then i asked her who it was,
    she replyed, "oh its a friend i talk to at school, hes slpit up from his misses and has 2 kids,

    i replyed, i bet your interested in him,

    she said "no im not"

    anyway a week later she asked me if i wanted to collect all my stuff, so i went up and as soon as i got there she said "you have 5 mins to get your stuff and go"
    so i got my stuff and then tryed to kiss her but she pushed me away ?

    so then i just left , thats why i never got in contact for 2 months

    well my point is, everytime we have split up after 4-5 weeks shes uselly rings up,
    but this time she never, so i thought it was kind of strange
    so i suspected somethink was going on.
    of course now i know now,
    now i know why she wanyted me to go after 5 mins, and why she pushed me away,
    because she must of been seeing him,
    she said shes only been seeing him for 1 week, but i rekon it was going on for some time,

    the worst things are,
    knowing theres someone else sh*gging your wife,
    and someone else bringing up ur kids
    them are the 2 things that play on your mind the most.
    Last edited by jjcool; 11th September 2002 at 06:37 PM.
     
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    CzarJunkie said:

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    Originally posted by Known
    jj, I sympathise with you, I really do.

    Screw czarjunkie, he's never gonna get married anyway, at least not to a woman, and kids? lol

    All I can say m8 is chin up, time heals everything, and chicks dig scars.
    You don't know how deep that insult has plunged into my soul like a flashing blade, if you knew the truth you'd know that I'm can never have a proper relationship with a woman, so you are right, I will never experienece the endless joy that children bring.........you heartless tool of misery. shame on you.
     
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    GavDF said:

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    how long didnt u live together for when your married with 4 kids?
    and she normally rings up after 4 or 5 weeks after a bust up? how many times did u split up
    sounds like u should both be out on the pi$$ celebrating
     
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    shadygeezer said:

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    Originally posted by jjcool
    well then i asked her who it was,
    she replyed, "oh its a friend i talk to at school, hes slpit up from his misses and has 2 kids,

    i replyed, i bet your interested in him,

    she said "no im not"

    anyway a week later she asked me if i wanted to collect all my stuff, so i went up and as soon as i got there she said "you have 5 mins to get your stuff and go"
    so i got my stuff and then tryed to kiss her but she pushed me away ?

    so then i just left , thats why i never got in contact for 2 months

    well my point is, everytime we have split up after 4-5 weeks shes uselly rings up,
    I'm sorry m8 but you've had a very strange relationship dosn't seem normal to me spliting up for 4-5 weeks @ a time with no contact yet you say you love her and the kids
    If i was away from my kids more than a day i be ringing make sure they ok
    This chap she with now got 2 kids your missus got 4 kids that sounds like one recipe for a short relationship
    the grass is always greener on the other side if your getting depressed m8 go see a dr or get some professional help
    no good getting worked up on a forum your open youself to anything m8 ........
    "as one door closes another one opens"
    i sincerely believe that m8 shame it dosn't work on their legs though
    Look after yourself and if you really want them kids and that woman back you got to work at it
    regards
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    I'd walk a mile for one of your smiles and even
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    2die4 said:

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    Originally posted by CzarJunkie


    .........you heartless tool of misery. shame on you.

    sorry mate - made me laugh !!! :
     
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    Cam said:

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    jj u said he has 2 kids...yeh wish um all the luck lett um move in together cos thats 6 kids then just cause hell where he works ringin him every 5 mins and shit till he gets fired then go to court and say there both not workin with 6 kids i am working i ave a stable job blah blah that shud get the courts in ur favour for the kids

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    well my point is, everytime we have split up after 4-5 weeks shes uselly rings up,
    but this time she never, so i thought it was kind of strange
    so i suspected somethink was going on.
    of course now i know now,
    are you sure she hasnt been taking you for a ride all along ?

    Not meaning to add insult to injury but how sure are you that all 4 of the kids are actually yours ? If shes done this this to you before in the past and always got back in contact after 4 or 5 weeks then she could have been have flings with other guys and took you back again after she got bored. Be on the safe side when she tries to claim money from you and get tests done to prove/disprove the fatherhood of all 4 kids.
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