Advice

[Anonymous]

Ok guys here goes:

I'm 37, have a good job, nice house and a fantastic 7yr old boy. Partner is slightly older than me and i can't fault her over the years.

So why do i want to throw it all away for a 29yr old woman who i have worked with for the past four years and only in the last six months have i begun to notice she's into me?

I'm not married and can honestly say the sex is great, get it when i want and BJ's anytime i want.

So why did i take this 29 yr old out behind my partners back and have the wildest night of my life, is it a case of forbidden fruit?

She's in the last stages of divorce from her previous husband and has a little boy of 5. So my question is why do i feel the urge to bonk her silly and throw everything to the wind to be with her. She has a body to die for and a set of boobs that wouldn't look out of place on a top shelf mag. She's as dirty as you can hope for in bed, even went as far as buying some bedtime wear for me before we went to hotel.

She wants to continue to see me but i can't hide the fact i'm seeing someone else very well. Is it a case of i'm getting older and want the hot girlfriend on my arm or does the sensible head need to kick in and get back to reality

[Anonymous]

It's a hard one that.

you have to think that maybe its a bit of excitement..... is it worth it? to ruin a very good relationship for a fling?

will this 29yr old get bored of you and move on? at least with your current partner you will have more loyalty.

I've been tempted on a few occasions and always thought how would i feel if my partner was cheating on me..... and it made me shudder!

do all the window shopping you want.... just dont touch the goods is my opinion....

and like you say if you have already tried the goods..... go for a refund ASAP!!!

everyone likes getting attention from younger people makes you feel good, but just because shes going through a divorce and is unhappy....... dont ruin it for yourself.

[sgtbarton]

I think its fair to say the temptation gets to us all , but for me , I look at my sons and don't want to destroy their world. The fact all is great at home too means you would be a mug to do this . Kids change everything but remember back to when u met your missus . I am sure it was just as good . Things change but be responsible for your sons sake. When he has grown up ask this question again to your self.
I am all for breaking off things with or without kids if their is just arguments all day long but your don't have that problem , stop being a dick and make the most of what you have. Enjoy .

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[maltloaf]

fill your boots

[chesser]

anytime I have been tempted I always think the Grass is Never Greener on the other side, if this bit on the side is as rampant with you will she be like that with others in years to come? Could you totally trust her? Don't ruin what you have mate is my advice....

[maltloaf]

Always regret what you have done and not what you haven't. If it all goes belly up at least you'll have the memories of keeping 2 women on the hook and if you are good looking/funny/intelligent enough to keep 2 women on the hook you'll always find another.

Conversely, imagine sitting in your bungalow at 90 wondering why you never followed it through.

Wether you like it or not, the fact that you've done anything and that you're wondering this means there is something wrong in your current relationship. And yes, I speak from experience.

[BertRoot]

Just bang her and video it. At least you will have some memory of it for a wank at home. You will lose interest more and more in your Mrs now because you obviously enjoy banging this one more and a return to the old nest will never fulfil you again.

[afc_man]

Dump her and post the pic's in the ex's section...lol
But seriously been there done that mate women come and go but not putting your kids to bed every night is the bit that will haunt you

[Anonymous]

Cheers guys,

Lots of interesting sides there, the only thing holding me back in my current relationship is her older son, he's not mine and at 19 has changed big time over the years and hates my guts.

I guess i view this girl as an escape from where i am just now. Something fresh, with what i know is a lot of rewards to be had. I'd lose my house and probably a lot of stuff in it but i can't help feeling the draw towards her. She's only had two serious relationships and knowing her over the years i don't think she'd be looking for a quick fuck n forget.

Thing with me is i always get itchy feet after a certain amount of time. I can't seem to commit fully and i quite possibly could be sitting in my bungalow at 90 with a video collection that Hugh Hefner would be proud of.

It's not easy thinking with your dick and your heart and the head in the mix too. I guess what makes me complacent is i know i have my son there all the time, i know the relationship i'll have with him and that won't change but does that make me selfish for knowing what my partner has given me and what i want.

[Anonymous]

Knock it on the head mate !! Shes getting divorced for a reason ! if you have a decent home life with a good mrs and kids ,why the fuck do you want to rock the boat ? The pain of having to seperate from your family and especially your children is gut wrenching ( well it was for me and i fucking hated my ex wife )
Stop and think how you would feel if some bloke you dont know was shagging your mrs while you were out working ?? ......and if hes younger than you and has got a bigger cock you will feel much more worse !!
Malty has a point in saying ...when you look back as a 90 yrs old u will think what if !! but more than likely you will be a lonley 90yrs old with no one by your side too share any memories with !!

[GTI]

Watch Fatal Attraction...

Spoiler:

It will put you off cheating for good
Its important to know that women will always show you their best side to ensnare you into their trap. Married or attached males are the most attractive because a) we're forbidden fruit and b) it gives some women an ego boost to steal a bloke from another woman. However once you've fallen for it, she'll either gets bored of you or turn into a whiney old mare and hit the cake.

It sounds like you already have a good woman, just use Youporn like the rest of us to bring your rampant libido under control

[Roach-Rampino]

Do you want your 7 year old boy to grow up knowing that his dad is a liar?

If you want to go elsewhere then break it off with your missus. Then go fuck who you want but think about your son before you do anything. Your choices now will have repercussions on him for many years to come.

[Anonymous]

Cheers Roach, makes sense now m8 thanks

[Roach-Rampino]

Cheers Roach, makes sense now m8 thanks

If I am honest that's how I run things through in my head when I have temptation put in my way.

I fucked everything in sight for 11 years before I met my missus and so you'd think I had it out of my system. However I am a man, my bollocks produce testosterone and I love women..yeee-haw!!! but when you chuck into the equation my 3yrs old and 7 month old children reality bites and you realise that the footloose, follow your cock attitude is actually very short-sighted and selfish.

If you were rowing everynight with your missus and she'd not touched your cock in months then it would be a different story.

Be strong brother.....be strong.

[Roach-Rampino]

She wants to continue to see me but i can't hide the fact i'm seeing someone else very well.

Who is the "someone else"?

Does your colleague of 4 years not know that you live with someone and have a child?

Or do you mean that you would have to hide the colleague from your missus? If this is the case and the colleague knows that you are with someone and have a son, then she is a scheming cunt, not to be trusted....not now, not ever.

[Anonymous]

Splash it on her fucking headlights. Fuck the nancy boys who say any different. If you are a man, you have every right to fuck whatever you like, man, woman or beast. Take what is rightfully yours.

[GTI]

Splash it on her fucking headlights

Splash it on her fucking headlights and the whole world is blind.. I'm sure that is a quote from Mahatma Gandhi?

[Anonymous]

Who is the "someone else"?

Does your colleague of 4 years not know that you live with someone and have a child?

Or do you mean that you would have to hide the colleague from your missus? If this is the case and the colleague knows that you are with someone and have a son, then she is a scheming cunt, not to be trusted....not now, not ever.

She knows i'm with someone and have a kid, i had meant that given that we have met a few times i can't hide it from my partner, you know the smell of perfume etc that sort of stuff.

[Anonymous]

Splash it on her fucking headlights and the whole world is blind.. I'm sure that is a quote from Mahatma Gandhi?

Who himself was a fine swordsman in his day. He thought nothing of making sweet love to his wife then to his many followers before settling down with a cow in the evenings to show them the sweet, sweet milk of human kindness. You won't find that in the history books, but it's common knowledge amongst men of a certain ilk.

[Mystical_2K]

use xhamster like the rest of us and stop being a dick