Family politics

[Goldberg]

Well the Wife's family to be frank!

Boils my piss!!! We are making the effort to goto 'Boro this weekend and take her Dad out for a Fathers Day meal.
Financially this will costs us about £150 in the Car (we are over our allocated mileage now so each extra mile costs) and then the Dinner will cost us the best part of £120 as we will have to pay for us, her Mam and Dad and her Mam's wine problem (problem is she can not get enough).

Now, we don't go home every Mothers Day/Fathers day as we are 250 miles away. My Dad lives in Turkey and he is happy with a card and a Skype chat.

But this is the bit that boils my piss... We live 250 miles away and make the effort. Her Brother lives in Austria so I guess he is off the hook.
She then has two sisters. The youngest is joining us, as is her Fiancee who is sacrificing Fathers Day with his Dad to join.
The middle Sister... Well this is it! She has 'Middle Child Syndrome'. Recently due to events she has become the chatter in the family and the one her Mam has to look after and never shuts up about. In fact the Priest at her Mam's church pulled up the Mother-in-law and asked her 'You do have other children don't you? You only ever seem to mention one of them'. Anyhow, her Husband is at work but she is 'Busy'... She cannot attend...

Now, normally that is fair enough but it is a close family (Her Mam would have them all breed with her Brother if she fucking could) and the 'middle Sister' has of late been financially fleecing her Dad. Seriously fleecing!
We are talking borrowing £20k+ for a house deposit and only makes the odd payment, this is after she spunked £30k up the wall after a split a couple of years ago!
Her Dad bought them a Car.
Her Dad is buying a Caravan at her request, of which she will be the one who will commandeer it.
She got double her allocation of cash from her Dad's pension when she got married.
Etc...

All of this and yet she can not be bothered to pop along for dinner!!!! I have an endless list of other things that have happened with her and how everything revolves around her. Plans been changed to accommodate her without others been notified etc.. etc..

When I bring this up with the Wife, I have to back off and she says 'Oh well, it is just my sister and how she is'. I mean what is that all about!

Absolutely disgusting behaviour.

[BertRoot]

Sarin will sort it.

[Goldberg]

Someone needs funking sorting out!

Don't get me started on her brother.. (I might have already posted about him).

[iron_brew]

i might know a hitman lol

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[Goldberg]

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[CzarJunkie]

Sounds like you should bin the wife and move in with a transsexual. That's what I did and her/his family have disowned him/her and I daren't take her to my family get togethers just in case her cock falls out. So family shit doesn't really come up and I've been a much happier person as a result. Plus I love cock, so that's an added bonus.

[consoles]

Had similar shit with the other halfs fat cunt of a mother, since our lass's dad died 9 years ago of cancer she made the mrs life hell demanding all her attention.

Got to the point I was going to walk out the door, was only for the kids i stuck around, in the end I had words with said fat cunt and for a few weeks it was funky with her family calling me every cunt under the sun cos she lost her husband blar blar, it wasnt until i said HANG ON CUNTS he also had a daughter whos supported her?

well after a few weeks mrs found her spine and told her mother to shake her head as she wasnt going to her beck n call every 2 mins.

been sweet since mother in law wont speak or call here (fucking bonus in my book) and me and the mrs are back on track.

Sometimes you have to stand and shout, even piss people off until they see the wood for the tree's

[Goldberg]

I am prepared to pull the Mother to one side this weekend.
I am ranting about the Sister and Brother but the overall problem is actually the Mother...

She causes so much trouble trying to get everyone to get together like the Swiss Family Fucking Robinson (Funny as her Mam's Christian name is Robinson), she totally disregards the fact the other half's have Family too... She is so negative, she is the type to worry about everything and rather just be happy for people she always has to have a negative comment/thought about something. It is almost like she is waiting for things to go wrong so she can say 'I told you so' - What, 20 years ago... Silly cow.

But again the Wife and the younger Sister just come out with "Oh it is just Mam, ignore her". I cannot, I need to tell people when they are been retarded.

[Goldberg]

Let me give you a couple of Examples of the Mother-in-law in action..

Last year the Middle Sister had a miscarriage and then lost a baby at full term. It was bad, really bad and she nearly died.
Since then the Middle Sister has had a lot of attention and rightly so. However she has always been the scheming one and is using this to her advantage. She is pregnant again now and is due in September so all good on that front.
The Mother-in-law loves this and this is what prompted the comment about the Priest. She goes to Kiddy Fiddling School every Sunday and bores the lug's off the Priest about the Middle Sister. This is when he eventually turned around to her and made the comment about the other kids... She is now using this to her advantage, she called the other kids and said "Oh, I think I might have been neglecting you. BUT it has been very hard for me" etc... you know the type.

Going back to the Funeral for the Baby her Sister lost at full term last year, what I am about to tell you is shocking. We are in the house on the day, get's into the Funeral Cars and heads to the Cemetary. When we get out of the Car, the Brother-in-law takes the baby in the Coffin, the Sister-in-law gets out all shaky. What does the Mother-in-law do... I will tell you.. She ran over to her Sister who was outside the Chapel, burst into hysterics so everyone felt sorry for her!
Later that day she came out with 'I have lost more than anyone here' aimed at the Brother-in-laws mother!

AND, going back to the day her sister found out she had lost the baby and had to give birth to a still born you would never ever guess what the Mother-in-law did. Seriously I am not making this up. She went into the room with the Sister-in-law and told her the same thing happened to her 33 years ago...

I fucking shit you not! The wife is 32 and the oldest, she had kept this secret from them all for all those fucking years and felt that the right time to tell them all was the day it happened to her fucking Daughter!! Another example about it all been about her! So rather then them be able to grieve for their Sister, they had to deal with this news too.

I have more but your probably asleep by now. This is what I married into..

[BigBird]

Must be really frustrating that. You can see what is going on but everyone else around your mother-in-law just accepts it. It's probably normal to them because they have grown up with it. Some families are like that unfortunately. You only have to watch Jeremy Vile to see how selfish and self centered some mothers can be. (">

[Goldberg]

Yep.

We we went home at the weekend to reveal we are 15 weeks pregnant
Everyone happy for us but her Sister was a bot off... Not sure if she was just shocked (Been together 17 years and married 18 months... She must have seen it coming) or she is calculating the cost of what she might not get both Financially and Attention.

I am sure this week she will have a couple of sick days, her mum will be onto the wife at how her sister is ill and how worried she is and then normal service will be resumed.

Fortunately for her we are 250 miles away. We don't want her Dad's money so she has nothing to worry about.